The Worst Part Of Travel

By Sara | July 28, 2016

Traveling the world is a fantastic. Every day we get to meet new people, see new places, and learn new things. However, there are some down sides to long term travel that would-be travelers should know before considering a long term travel lifestyle.

1. Carrying Backpacks

This is right at the top of our list of the worst part of travel. Carrying backpacks to and from destinations is never fun, and at times is downright maddening. We’ve been stuck walking to the train station in pouring rain and sweltering heat. More than once, we’ve forgotten things and had to lug all of our packs back to our accommodation. We’ve had back pain, shoulder pain, and blistered feet from carrying heavy loads, and that’s with only carryon sized bags. Unless you’ve allocated a budget to take taxi’s to stations, carrying a backpack long distances is one of the worst parts of travel.

2. Getting Sick

There’s no getting around it, travel will make you sick. It will break down your body, test your mind, and expose you to a whole range of germs that you wouldn’t have met at home. Being sick on the road is not a fun experience but is an aspect that comes with long term travel.

3. Sleeping in Hostels

Sleeping in bunkbeds is never fun, but Airbnb’s aren’t the cheapest or best option in every city, even though we wish they were! This means that some, or most nights are spent sleeping in hostel rooms with 4 to 20 other people. It’s highly probable that someone in the room is a snorer, so make sure to pack earplugs to avoid sleepless nights.

4. Daily Goodbyes

Meeting new people and making new friends is one of the best parts of travel. Learning about other people’s values, beliefs, and culture makes you a more worldly citizen, but it also means saying goodbye. Over and over and over again. After a while, it becomes difficult to have so many relationships short-lived.

5. Lack Of Constant Community

When talking about the worst part of travel, not having a constant community is right up there with saying goodbye. It’s easy to take friends, family, and even neighbors for granted when you’re living in one place and seeing them often. Traveling makes staying in touch hard on all parties, and it’s likely that your social circle will extend to you, any travel companions, and your close family members.

6. Loneliness

People say travel is a great way to “find yourself” and this is true. However, the reason finding oneself is possible is because of the amount of time you have to just “be”. At first this can be a blessing, but after some time it’s easy to become lonely. Even surrounded by other, like-minded travelers it can be hard to connect in a meaningful way and get out of your own head.

7. Missing Out on Celebrations

For most long term travelers, flying home every time there is a birth, wedding, holiday, or even funeral isn’t always realistic. Flights can be costly and the reality is that certain life events will get missed during your travels. Sure, you can always send a card and “be there” over Skype, but it isn’t the same as spending time with your loved ones. This is one of the worst parts about travel and is a tough realization to come to terms with.

Is Long Term Travel Still Worth It?

It’s important to note that though this post is a compilation of the downsides of travel, it in no way undermines all of the amazing parts of travel. For every negative there are countless positives, and often the negative experiences make the best stories. Be aware of the less glamorous parts of travel before you decide to plan a world trip, but appreciate every moment. After all, the absolute worst part of travel is missing it when it’s over.

Where is Home? (A Philosophical Approach)

By Sara | May 5, 2016

One of the many reasons that traveling the world is amazing is that we get to meet people from all walks of life. Every interaction is unique, but in each conversation we are eventually asked “where is home?” We can usually dodge the question by saying “United States” or “California,” but answering any more specifically is a challenge.

Right now we are in London, a week ago we were in Paris, everything we own is in a storage unit in California, and our mailing address is in Wisconsin. As you can probably imagine, home is difficult to define right now.

After sitting at our AirBnB dining room table debating where our home was, we threw the question out to our friends and family on Facebook and got some great responses.

Both of my apartments in WI and MN that I lived in for a year I never called home. I always called them “the apartment.” I think it was because I knew they were temporary. Now in CO we own a condo and I will call it home because it is more permanent, even though we may move back to AZ someday where we grew up, and now that I am married I live with my husband instead of alone or with roommates. However, I still also call my childhood home in AZ “home.” So what I get out of this is that there needs to be some sort of permanency, living with or close to family/friends, and a place where precious memories have been made and will continue to be made. Even if all of my family moved away from AZ, I think I would always call it home. Just things to think about…
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Home is a feeling at this age. It may be where you’ve moves all your things or where you pay to live, but home is somewhere, hopefully with others, where you feel accepted and most comfortable. It’s somewhere you take refuge.

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Home is where my wife stores her Ikea purchases

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Home is a fluid concept. It is where happy memories are made, and that change as life changes. Home is about gathering places of loved ones. It’s all about the company you keep, and where people you love gather.

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The real “home” is the place where you feel good. The tricky part is that it isn’t always a physical place… It can be every steps of your trip across the world 🙂

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c.s. Lewis said we were made for another world. home is not getting attached to temporary places. But finding a eternal place to dwell. <3

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A place with memory and a place you have spent a lot of time. I spent a lot of time in Texas growing up. And sure I “lived” in Wisconsin but Texas always felt like home. I felt relaxed and at ease. Felt like that’s where o was suppose to be

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Home is where you feel safest, where you feel at ease and with people you love 🙂 hope you guys are well!

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My home is earth.

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The overwhelming consensus was that the definition of home has three main components: belonging, longevity, and safety.


Belonging:

The first thing required to feel at home is having a sense of belonging. This can include feeling comfortable enough to be your true self, wear what you’d like, come and go as you please, and feel accepted by those around you.

Safety:

The next requirement of a home is having a sense of safety. Living in an environment of both physical and emotional safety is crucial to calling a place home. A house doesn’t make a home all by itself, but having a sense of safety helps begin to transform that.

Longevity:

The last requirement of home is a sense of longevity, or the feeling of home being continuous and always ‘there’. It is important to note that this is relative per person. For instance, while traveling the world Greg often refers to the AirBnB’s or hostels we stay in as home while Sara does not. The sense of longevity varies person to person, and plays a big factor in determining where home is.


Through many discussions and inputs, we’ve come to the conclusion that home isn’t just where your family is, but it’s also a base, a safe house, a network of people, and a place you can always return to. When any of those things are no longer present or become difficult to define, the “where is home” debate opens.

In the last 5 months we’ve been to 8 countries and 30 different cities, and while we’re having the time of our lives there are moments where we miss our California home. We miss things like walking into an apartment furnished with our own things, cooking meals with actual ingredients from our neighborhood grocery store and hosting monthly wine and cheese parties. We miss having girls nights to watch the new season of the Bachelor while the guys play the latest zombie game. The reality is, when you leave everything behind to travel, home changes.

Extended travel is one of the hardest journeys we’ve embarked on, but the reward is so worth it. Travel will change you, it will make you sick, it will push you into situations that are foreign and unique, and you’ll probably emerge a different person than who you started as.

But travel will also help you grow, help you learn, increase your compassion, and teach you so much about the world that just can’t be understood through news or textbooks. We miss having a constant home, and we know that we’ll make another one someday. When we do, it will be the most cherished and valuable thing in our lives. But for now, the road still calls stronger than having the feeling of home, so we’ll travel on.